Home is where the Heart is…
Closing the distance is so much more than moving in together. It’s also (at least) one of you leaving everything behind and moving across country or much further, so you both can pursue happiness as a couple. It’s exciting and little bit scary… And you know, it’s so worth it.
My main advice for anyone who is in a LDR: plan on closing the distance. If you decided to stay miles apart, I assume that you are sacrificing so much because you are sure about your willingness to be together. Think of a timeframe you can be apart (which shouldn’t be more than a year, to keep it healthy). Plan what has to be done to make the move as smooth as possible and start spending your time in preparing for it.
The secret of a happy relationship is quite simple: none of you own each other and if you feel that your relationship is slowly being poisoned by constantly demanding, questioning, complaining, and arguing, maybe all you need is a change in your own attitude?
Long distance is no picnic, but it doesn’t have to be painful, either. If you both stoke the flame, long distance can be fun and rewarding, so don’t be afraid to throw yourself into it.
There are multiple ways which can help you stay positive throughout the phase of living apart — listening to long distance relationship songs, collecting inspirational quotes, looking for friends who are in the same phase online etc.
Introduction Long Distance Relationships (LDRs) have become a prevalent part of modern life. Whether driven by educational pursuits, career advancements,
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